Ok so I have a ton of things to get off my mind.
First, I have a baby. Lainey Rae Thompson was born on my birthday, November 11, 2019, at 1:27 pm. She was 6 lbs 12 oz and 18 inches long. She was also a month early. Honestly, she is so beautiful and I love her so much.
My water broke at 12:15 am on the 11th and we went to the hospital. I didn't wake up in a puddle, I woke up feeling like I had to pee and went to the bathroom but the stuff was leaking all over me and I knew that it wasn't pee. I woke Masen up and said "So I don't want to freak you out or anything but I think my water just broke." So we, very peacefully, packed up a bag for me and went to the hospital. They put me in a room and took some tests to make sure that I was ruptured and sure enough, I was. So then they were like you're not going home, you're gonna have a baby.
It was the first time in my life that I stayed up almost all night. I was dilated to a 3 when we first got there. I was contracting every 2.5 minutes but I couldn't feel it for whatever reason. I think they were just little contractions. And then the day continued to progress. The contractions got worse, more and more painful. So I asked for an epidural and I'm really glad I did. They got it put in my back and my legs went numb, but unfortunately, I could still feel all the contractions. So after a little bit the guy came back in and took it out and put it up higher on my back. Then everything went numb and it felt sooooo good. I'm so glad I got an epidural. It also didn't slow my progression at all and then I was able to go to sleep for an hour and a half before everything went crazy. By 7 am I was dilated to a 6. By 10 am I was dilated to a 10 and ready to go. They didn't want me to go yet though because they thought her head was turned the wrong way. I started pushing around 10:30 and kept pushing for 3 hours. It wasn't super painful, just uncomfortable. It turned out that she was sideways and the doctor had to shove her whole hand up my vagina twice to try to turn her around. It worked the second time and I finally got her out. I don't think I've ever been as exhausted as I was. I was SO tired. Pushing a baby out for that long is so exhausting. But then she was out and they took her over to the cleaning area. She had an alien shaped head which was really silly looking, but she was doing really well. I'm so glad that she came early. She was really big for 35 weeks and she would have been HUGE if she had been in there the whole time.
They got my placenta out and then commenced with stitching me up cuz I tore a little bit. That was painful. I could feel it a bit cuz the epidural was wearing off. So awful.
Before they took her to the NICU, I got to hold her. My sweet little Lainey. She snuggled right up and continued crying but she has the cutest little cry and I didn't even care. Masen got to hold her too. He cried when he first saw her and he was SUPER helpful while I was in labor. He held my leg so that I was in a good position to push her out. It was very nice of him.
Since she was born, she's been in the NICU the whole time. We go and visit her and she's getting better. They were worried about her blood sugar at first but then they got an IV in her and that got a better. And then they were worried about other things like her white blood cell count which was high which meant that she could have an infection. She doesn't and that's gone down which is nice. I've been pumping milk for her and been getting better and better at it. Lainey's main issue is learning how to eat which she's not very good at yet. She's still learning.
My biggest issue right now is that she's not here with me at home. It's so sad. Also Mary and Patti have been really annoying to me today. Patti just seems to pessimistic and it's driving me crazy. Mary is trying to be encouraging and also telling me what to do. My hormones are making them seem SO annoying to me. I just need to calm down... Like really. It's all gonna be okay. I know it is.
Here's my baby.
Thursday, November 14, 2019
Sunday, July 14, 2019
Trust
This week, we've been reading from 2 Peter in my religion class. Peter is full of great little verses that would help anyone and I found a lot of strength in 2 Peter 1:16. It says:
"For we have not followed cunningly devised fables, when we made known unto you the power and coming of our Lord Jesus Christ, but were eyewitnesses of his majesty."
I have known a lot of people that have struggled with the gospel and what the Church asks of us. One of my friends in particular got ahold of some anti- teachings and read there that the Church brainwashes us. When she first told me that, I was shocked. Why on earth would she have believed that? But then I started thinking about all the things that she doesn't like about the Church anymore and I began to understand. When we forget that the leaders of the Church are men and women of God and that they have spent their entire lives trying to draw closer to the Lord and understand His will, we can believe anything about the leaders of the Church. Just like Peter said, I'm sure President Nelson would say or President Monson or even Joseph Smith, "We have not followed cunningly devised fables... but were eyewitnesses of his majesty." As a matter of fact, Joseph Smith did say something similar to this:
"And now, after the many testimonies which have been given of him, this is the testimony, last of all, which we give of him: That he lives!
For we saw him, even on the right hand of God; and we heard the voice bearing record that he is the Only Begotten of the Father-" (D&C 76:22-23)
When we are little, we have our parents' testimonies to rely on, along with those of our teachers and friends. As we get older, we are expected to learn and grow and create our own testimony, founded on the teachings of the gospel. If we let that slide and make our testimonies weak, we have no one to blame but ourselves and we will hear, like Peter says, "For it had been better for them not to have known righteousness, than, after they have known it, to turn from the holy commandment delivered unto them" (2 Peter 2:21). We are responsible for ourselves and for our own conversion. Make sure that you are fully converted and that you have a strong testimony, or you will have a really hard time in days to come.
"For we have not followed cunningly devised fables, when we made known unto you the power and coming of our Lord Jesus Christ, but were eyewitnesses of his majesty."
I have known a lot of people that have struggled with the gospel and what the Church asks of us. One of my friends in particular got ahold of some anti- teachings and read there that the Church brainwashes us. When she first told me that, I was shocked. Why on earth would she have believed that? But then I started thinking about all the things that she doesn't like about the Church anymore and I began to understand. When we forget that the leaders of the Church are men and women of God and that they have spent their entire lives trying to draw closer to the Lord and understand His will, we can believe anything about the leaders of the Church. Just like Peter said, I'm sure President Nelson would say or President Monson or even Joseph Smith, "We have not followed cunningly devised fables... but were eyewitnesses of his majesty." As a matter of fact, Joseph Smith did say something similar to this:
"And now, after the many testimonies which have been given of him, this is the testimony, last of all, which we give of him: That he lives!
For we saw him, even on the right hand of God; and we heard the voice bearing record that he is the Only Begotten of the Father-" (D&C 76:22-23)
When we are little, we have our parents' testimonies to rely on, along with those of our teachers and friends. As we get older, we are expected to learn and grow and create our own testimony, founded on the teachings of the gospel. If we let that slide and make our testimonies weak, we have no one to blame but ourselves and we will hear, like Peter says, "For it had been better for them not to have known righteousness, than, after they have known it, to turn from the holy commandment delivered unto them" (2 Peter 2:21). We are responsible for ourselves and for our own conversion. Make sure that you are fully converted and that you have a strong testimony, or you will have a really hard time in days to come.
Wednesday, June 26, 2019
Faith
This week we were reading in Hebrews and chapter 11 is all about faith and how important it is. The chapter uses all sorts of examples from the Old Testament, examples of people who had strong faith, starting from Abel and heading all the way to people who were stoned which is referring to those in the New Testament. There's some really interesting examples but I just loved the message that chapter gave. The message was: faith is trusting in God and knowing that we don't have to know everything to get by. I feel like this has been a really important theme in my life. I know the gospel is true. I can't give a specific example of a time in my life when that has been testified to me, but I know that it's true.
All throughout my life I have tried to have strong faith. I have tried to believe in God and trust that everything's going to work out okay. This has helped me get through some really hard times in my life. Everyone has different trials and we all change as we make our way through them. Faith is what has given me strength to make it through. Faith has changed me and molded me into the person I am today. Faith gives me hope and it makes me more optimistic. Life sucks sometimes but when I have faith I can see through the dark times to the other side. Faith is a blessing and we are required to keep it strong and if we don't then we struggle. I don't ever want to struggle more than I need to. When I have faith, I know that Heavenly Father has my back and that he's watching out for me. My Savior is there and He is walking through anything with me, always.
All throughout my life I have tried to have strong faith. I have tried to believe in God and trust that everything's going to work out okay. This has helped me get through some really hard times in my life. Everyone has different trials and we all change as we make our way through them. Faith is what has given me strength to make it through. Faith has changed me and molded me into the person I am today. Faith gives me hope and it makes me more optimistic. Life sucks sometimes but when I have faith I can see through the dark times to the other side. Faith is a blessing and we are required to keep it strong and if we don't then we struggle. I don't ever want to struggle more than I need to. When I have faith, I know that Heavenly Father has my back and that he's watching out for me. My Savior is there and He is walking through anything with me, always.
Sunday, June 9, 2019
The Church is True
One of the biggest statements by members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is that our church is the true church. We don't say this to insult other religions or to claim that we are better than them. Every religion that brings you closer to Heavenly Father and Jesus is a good one. But there's a big difference between being a good church and being a true church.
In Ephesians 2:19-20, Paul says, "Now, therefore ye are no more strangers and foreigners, but fellowcitizens with the saints, and of the household of God.
And are built upon the foundation of apostles and prophets, Jesus Christ himself being the chief corner stone."
This is pretty significant. An Apostle of the Lord is telling us all what the foundation of the Church of Christ must be. There must be apostles and prophets who are called of God and Jesus Christ must be the chief corner stone of that church. Seems pretty simple to me. Later on, in Ephesians 4, he continues telling us why we need apostles and prophets. "For the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ:
Till we all come in the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, unto a perfect man, unto the measure of the stature of the fulness of Christ.
That we henceforth be no more children, tossed to and fro, and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the sleight of men, and cunning craftiness, whereby they lie in wait to deceive" (verses 12-14).
Along with the prophets and apostles come revelation from God and we need that revelation because without it we would be so lost. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is the true church because we have prophets and apostles who receive revelation for the world. Jesus Christ is also the chief corner stone of our religion. He is the center of all of our teachings and without Him, our church would fail. I know this is the true church. I know that President Russell M. Nelson is a prophet of God and he loves all of us. He receives revelation for us. The apostles are also called of God. This is the true church. You won't find a truer one on the earth today because this is the Church that Jesus Christ established on the earth, restored to these modern times for all of us, so we can know the correct way to get back to Him someday.
In Ephesians 2:19-20, Paul says, "Now, therefore ye are no more strangers and foreigners, but fellowcitizens with the saints, and of the household of God.
And are built upon the foundation of apostles and prophets, Jesus Christ himself being the chief corner stone."
This is pretty significant. An Apostle of the Lord is telling us all what the foundation of the Church of Christ must be. There must be apostles and prophets who are called of God and Jesus Christ must be the chief corner stone of that church. Seems pretty simple to me. Later on, in Ephesians 4, he continues telling us why we need apostles and prophets. "For the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ:
Till we all come in the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, unto a perfect man, unto the measure of the stature of the fulness of Christ.
That we henceforth be no more children, tossed to and fro, and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the sleight of men, and cunning craftiness, whereby they lie in wait to deceive" (verses 12-14).
Along with the prophets and apostles come revelation from God and we need that revelation because without it we would be so lost. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is the true church because we have prophets and apostles who receive revelation for the world. Jesus Christ is also the chief corner stone of our religion. He is the center of all of our teachings and without Him, our church would fail. I know this is the true church. I know that President Russell M. Nelson is a prophet of God and he loves all of us. He receives revelation for us. The apostles are also called of God. This is the true church. You won't find a truer one on the earth today because this is the Church that Jesus Christ established on the earth, restored to these modern times for all of us, so we can know the correct way to get back to Him someday.
Sunday, June 2, 2019
Be not Ashamed
Romans 1:16 says, "For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Jesus Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believeth; to the Jew first, and also to the Greek." Ashamed can be defined as "embarrassed or guilty of one's actions, characteristics, or associations." Paul is teaching the Romans in this book and he felt that this was an important thing to share with them.
I am not ashamed of the gospel of Jesus Christ either. It is peace and happiness in this life even when chaos abounds. It is the truth in a confusing world. It is safety and joy and blesses my life. I know the gospel is the power of God unto salvation. I feel so loved when I am obedient to my Heavenly Father. People sometimes wonder about members of the Church and why they do what they do. Why they're so obedient. Well there are many reasons for each person. But I think the main reason for each person who stays with the gospel for their whole life is because of the love they feel when they obey and the peace that comes with making good choices. When you obey, you know that God is pleased with you and I don't know why anyone would want anyone else's approval but His. His approval is the most important thing you could ever receive.
I love the gospel and the light it brings into my life. I love that I can share that light with those around me and help their lives become better. I know the gospel is essential for true and lasting happiness in this life. Without it, our happiness becomes fleeting and unfulfilling.
I am not ashamed of the gospel of Jesus Christ either. It is peace and happiness in this life even when chaos abounds. It is the truth in a confusing world. It is safety and joy and blesses my life. I know the gospel is the power of God unto salvation. I feel so loved when I am obedient to my Heavenly Father. People sometimes wonder about members of the Church and why they do what they do. Why they're so obedient. Well there are many reasons for each person. But I think the main reason for each person who stays with the gospel for their whole life is because of the love they feel when they obey and the peace that comes with making good choices. When you obey, you know that God is pleased with you and I don't know why anyone would want anyone else's approval but His. His approval is the most important thing you could ever receive.
I love the gospel and the light it brings into my life. I love that I can share that light with those around me and help their lives become better. I know the gospel is essential for true and lasting happiness in this life. Without it, our happiness becomes fleeting and unfulfilling.
Sunday, May 19, 2019
Marriage
Marriage is essential to Heavenly Father's plan. It always has been and it always will be. And that means marriage between a man and a woman, no other way. When a marriage is between a man and a woman, they can start a family. For the most part that family can happen in a natural way. Of course some families struggle to have children, but that's okay because if they can't have them in this life, Heavenly Father has promised that they can in the next life. They will have an increase without end, if they are faithful. This applies to all families that are sealed in the temple and live righteously.
"Husband and wife have a solemn responsibility to love and care for each other and for their children" (The Family: Proclamation to the World, paragraph 6). This is what is expected of us from our Heavenly Father. It's super important that we heed this council. This week in my New Testament class we were reading in 1 Corinthians and I read chapter 7. I had never read this chapter before but a verse stuck out to me. That was verse 3: "Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband." Now, I had a general idea of what benevolence meant, but I wanted to know for sure. It means the quality of being well-meaning or kindness. Pretty simple. This verse means that a husband and wife should be kind to each other. I thought it was very sweet that Paul felt that people should be reminded to be kind to each other.
One of the main things that my father-in-law encourages my husband and I to do is to be kind to each other. It's like the only thing he encourages us to do. I think kindness is so important in marriage. We promised to be with each other for forever. Would you want to be sealed to someone who wasn't nice to you? When you're deciding who to marry, always ask yourself if the person you're dating respects you and if they're kind to you. This applies to men and women, cuz I know there are some women out there who aren't very nice.
I remember when I was single and had roommates and my roommates would come home from a date. We'd always ask them how it went and what he was like and they would say he was a very kind person. That's it. But they said it in a way that gave it a negative connotation and we knew that she wouldn't be going on a date with him again. It made me think that when they were using the word kind to describe him, that was synonymous with boring. Kind doesn't mean boring! Kind means kind and kind is a great thing to be. Marriages should involve kindness and love and caring.
"Husband and wife have a solemn responsibility to love and care for each other and for their children" (The Family: Proclamation to the World, paragraph 6). This is what is expected of us from our Heavenly Father. It's super important that we heed this council. This week in my New Testament class we were reading in 1 Corinthians and I read chapter 7. I had never read this chapter before but a verse stuck out to me. That was verse 3: "Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband." Now, I had a general idea of what benevolence meant, but I wanted to know for sure. It means the quality of being well-meaning or kindness. Pretty simple. This verse means that a husband and wife should be kind to each other. I thought it was very sweet that Paul felt that people should be reminded to be kind to each other.
One of the main things that my father-in-law encourages my husband and I to do is to be kind to each other. It's like the only thing he encourages us to do. I think kindness is so important in marriage. We promised to be with each other for forever. Would you want to be sealed to someone who wasn't nice to you? When you're deciding who to marry, always ask yourself if the person you're dating respects you and if they're kind to you. This applies to men and women, cuz I know there are some women out there who aren't very nice.
I remember when I was single and had roommates and my roommates would come home from a date. We'd always ask them how it went and what he was like and they would say he was a very kind person. That's it. But they said it in a way that gave it a negative connotation and we knew that she wouldn't be going on a date with him again. It made me think that when they were using the word kind to describe him, that was synonymous with boring. Kind doesn't mean boring! Kind means kind and kind is a great thing to be. Marriages should involve kindness and love and caring.
Sunday, May 12, 2019
Motherhood
The main thing I learned this week wasn't from the reading or class or anything but it's even more important. I learned it from Sacrament meeting today from a talk by one of my friends. She talked about being a mother to her two little girls and she said that her favorite scripture story to read is about Mother Eve. Eve was in a beautiful spot, the Garden of Eden, with her husband. Their lives were simple and easy there and without trials. But was she truly happy? No, because she wasn't complete. She didn't have any children and she knew she needed them. Motherhood was her calling. She didn't experience true joy until she became a mother, even if it wasn't in the most ideal place.
Thinking about this, I can relate a lot to Eve. My life has been relatively easy I would say. I've had trials but I've overcome them and learned a lot from them. Being currently pregnant again after a miscarriage, I understand what Eve went through. I used to be in a beautiful, easy place as well. Yes, there were some trials but nothing like what's coming for me. And yet, there will be true joy down the road as well because our family will grow. I have never experienced the joys of motherhood, and I'm so excited to get to have them. Like Eve, it takes sacrifices to experience true joy. I am willing to sacrifice everything for my little one and I know that because of that, I will be guided by my Savior as I welcome this little one into the world at the end of this year. I'm grateful for all the women in my life who have sacrificed for me and for the love they have shown me.
Thinking about this, I can relate a lot to Eve. My life has been relatively easy I would say. I've had trials but I've overcome them and learned a lot from them. Being currently pregnant again after a miscarriage, I understand what Eve went through. I used to be in a beautiful, easy place as well. Yes, there were some trials but nothing like what's coming for me. And yet, there will be true joy down the road as well because our family will grow. I have never experienced the joys of motherhood, and I'm so excited to get to have them. Like Eve, it takes sacrifices to experience true joy. I am willing to sacrifice everything for my little one and I know that because of that, I will be guided by my Savior as I welcome this little one into the world at the end of this year. I'm grateful for all the women in my life who have sacrificed for me and for the love they have shown me.
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