I didn't have a cellphone when I was in middle school. I never even thought about having a cellphone... I know these days, parents give their kids cellphones because they want to be in touch with them and make sure that they're safe always, blah blah blah. Personally, I don't think it's necessary.
From my experience, middle school/junior high age is waaaaay too young to be needing a cellphone. Yes, it helps you know where your kid is. But it causes way more problems than you think.
Kids are stupid. There I said it. I was stupid when I was 12, 13, 14, even 15. Phones these days give kids access to everything. All sorts of bad stuff that they don't need to be exposed to. It also causes heaps of drama. And can also cause kids to hide things from their parents.
My younger siblings, all at various ages, have had problems with social media and drama. "So-and-so said this about me" "So-and-so told everyone my secret" "So-and-so called me this" It goes on and on and on.
I remember when I was back in middle school. Nerdy little Q, heading to the library or the band room. Life was simple back then. No boy drama. No friend drama. These days, it's pretty amazing to hear about all the stuff that goes on over at that school.
And a lot of that craziness is linked to cellphones. Kids don't need em. They can lead to cyber bullying, secret relationships, addictions (yes, Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter count as addictions), and lowering grades. It can get kids in trouble too. I heard recently that my high school has started a ban of cellphones during class. Phones may only be used during passing time on penalty of suspension. Honestly, I think it's a great idea.
School is a time for learning. Phones take away from that time and distract students and cause more drama than their worth. Please don't give little kids cellphones... I am grateful that I wasn't allowed a cellphone with texting until I graduated.
So, for my little brother, you'll understand when you're older. Mom and Dad love you and they want whats best for you. Even if you might not like it. You'll be better off with no phone. I promise.
Love,
Q
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